Basic Attraction Techniques

There's more to seducing a girl than being confident. There are also techniques that you could use to either build rapport or attraction. You need both of these things to successfully seduce a girl. Let me break both of these concepts down for you.

Attraction

Attraction is when you "want" a girl. I can't explain it better than that. There's more than one type of attraction though. You could be attracted to her body (sexual attraction) or to her personality. That's attraction. I'll be listing techniques that are used everyday by "naturals" to build attraction.

Rapport

Rapport = Trust + A Connection. Rapport is important, because even if she's really attracted to you, she won't trust you to do anything with her. You have to be careful with building rapport though. If you build too much rapport with a girl without building enough attraction, you will end up in the friend-zone. If you're in the friend-zone, it's going to be harder for her to think of you as a "potential mate". Attraction comes first and rapport second. Especially if you're picking up girls you don't know. If you're in high school there and you're not running sh*t, you need to build rapport first and then attraction.

Negs

Negs are negative comments to lower a girl's social value around you. This is basically "teasing". Girls are attracted to social value and will not consider going out with you if you don't have more than her, or at least the same amount. Now, there's a difference between a "neg" and "insulting her".

This is an example of a neg: "Those shoes look alright on you, but they're not really your colour". Negs show disinterest. There's a difference between that and "I don't like your shoes, bitch!". The trick to a neg is to be playful. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. If I display with my body language and vocal tone that I'm playful, it will work great. If you sound serious, then it won't work as well. Also, never apolagize for a neg.

Display High Value (DHV)

Displaying high value is basically letting a girl know you're higher value than her. However, there's a specific way of doing this. If you go up to her and say "I've got a lamborghini, girls like me and I'm rich", she won't like you. You're bragging which is wrong and you'd be coming across like you're trying to impress her. Remember, she should be trying to impress you.

The right way to display high value is through stories, so it's indirect and she doesn't know that you're showing her how cool you are. A good example would be something like "Yeah, so I was going to Chicago with my girlfriend and she was driving. She kept saying 'baby I want to suck your dick' and I was like 'baby, no! We're driving!', etc..." This shows "pre-selection". From this story, she can percieve that you're already good with women. The qualities you want to display are the "protector, being good with women, being emotionally normal, having friends, etc...". So, you can show her your high value by telling stories, but there's another way.

The other way to show high value is by her witnessing the value with her own eyes. For example, if you're talking to her and 2 extremely hot women came to you and gave you their numbers, you'd automatically gain massive value in her eyes. You'll notice she'll become even more attracted to you.

Kino

Kino stands for "kinesthetic", which is basically touch. Has a girl ever touched you and all of a sudden you felt more attracted to her? This is because your brain released chemicals into your body that made you feel good when she touched you. Girls are more sensitive to this when we are, so TOUCH THEM! Touch the girl the right way and she'll become more attracted to you. Don't randomly grab her ass, because that's wrong and she'll probably slap you. Start off small. Touch her fore-arm, then her wrist, maybe after that you can touch her hair and her leg a bit. This is called kino escalation. Escalate, once she's comfortable with you touching her the way she is. Every time she gets comfortable, touch her more sexually. This will build loads of attraction if done right.

Interest

Interest should be given sparingly. If you use too much negs, you'll come across as an asshole. That's why you need to balance them out with interest. Don't tell her how beautiful she is like all the other loser guys. If you want to compliment her, make it unique. Comment about her earings, a peice of clothing or her "energy". Make sure you don't shower her with compliments though.

These are basic techniques on how to seduce girls. There are A LOT more out there, but it would take me an extremely long time to put them in this post. For now, this should be enough for you guys . You'll also notice other guys using these techniques subconciously. Enjoy!

This article was written by #1 a member of the Street Team.