How to Approach a Girl

Once you have found places to meet girls you then need to approach them. How to approach a girl is not that difficult! Most guys are just total pussies and are scared of women. What are you scared of? If you can't approach a woman that you’re attracted to than you will never have the relationships you desire!

That’s the reason you’re searching on the Internet for advice right.  The problem is you not out approaching women are you?  If you honestly can't get over your fear of approach, you need some help with your Approach Anxiety.  This will help you get over your fear and get you out there approaching women.  Learn How to Beat Approach Anxiety!

If you feel at this point your not afraid to approach women than read on.  How to approach a girl is all about your courage and confidence!  You need to have complete confidence in yourself, women will test you on this and try to get your confidence to break, having complete confidence is not being nervous or scared and knowing women love you.  Its not something your unsure of, its something you know!  If you don't know how to approach a girl, I will teach you the exact ways I use that have repeatedly gotten me success.  An opener dosen't have to be anything super advanced or complicated, just something to get a conversation started comfortably.

Having courage, well you just need to decide in your head that your committed to finding the women you desire and having the lifestyle you want.  If you’re too scared to approach a girl your denying your masculinity and your natural instincts.  The problem is most guys don't know how to approach a girl, they just think it will just "happen" but the truth is meeting and approaching women is something you must do if you want to take care of this area of your life.  Don't deny your masculinity and power embrace it.  You shouldn't be ashamed or embarrassed to approach a girl.

How to approach a girl depends on if your approaching them in the daytime or the night time.  In the day time women almost NEVER get approached, so it is best to directly state your interest in her.  Stop her and say something like "Hey I know this really random but your cute and I had to come meet you."  This requires solid inner game, you have to show rock solid confidence in yourself, like she couldn't turn you down even if she wanted to.  

When you open directly she will feel this confidence and intent radiating from you, like a strong sexual energy.  This shows her that Your the type of guy that isn't afraid to talk to a girl your attracted to.  It shows tremendous courage and confidence and she will become attracted to you just because of that.  When your learning how to approach a girl, and you show direct interest like this don't be super serious about it, or what's called "reaction seeking". 

You want to approach her because something within you moved you to do it and your the type of guy that approaches girls he is attracted to.  It's just part of who you are, but you don't put much significance on it.  If something happens great, if It dosen't than its not a big deal but at least you didn't let that opportunity pass you by. 

When learning how to approach a girl in the night time its better to not directly state your interest right away.  Women in night time situations are a lot more guarded and used to guys hitting on them.  When approaching a girl at night its better to use an opinion opener or what’s called an indirect opener.  Your goal here is to get her talking to you and in a conversation so that you can gradually show interest. 

How to approach a girl in the night venues is to open with something like "Hey guys I want to know what you think about this, is it cheating when a girl kisses another girl?  Then say "The reason I asked was because my friend Steve just got into a relationship, but whenever they go out to parties she kisses other girls, he thinks it's cheating but she doesn’t and they got into a big argument about it." 

These types of openers work better when its something real and genuine that comes from your life that you want to talk about.  At night time people need to get the impression that your talking to them because your a social person and you want to have fun, not because your trying to get something from her.  Generally don't approach a girl with a compliment at night; you want to get to know her personality first before you show interest.

If your having trouble of thinking naturally what to say, and would like to learn more about how to approach a girl, I have a great book on openers called   Instant Attraction . These openers will help you know exactly what to say in every situation.