How to Get a Girlfriend

So maybe you have some girls that are friends or get random hookups, but you really want to know how to get a girlfriend who's committed to you.  If you have no possible prospects of girls you’re currently seeing, you have to go somewhere to meet, and then approach women.  You then have to get dates where you interact with the girl and she becomes attracted to you.  Where she sees you’re confident and man enough to be the type of guy she would want to get to know better.  That’s basically the groundwork you need before you can try to get a girlfriend.

How to get a girlfriend?  Well there are a couple ways you can do this.  First of all the major thing is building a lot of comfort and connection.  Having a girlfriend is a lot about the emotional aspect, while booty calls and girls you hook up with is more about physical needs not emotional.  So you have to connect to her on a deeper level, and appreciate her for who she truly is.  You have to build a deep emotional connection.

Also don't forget the physical aspect as well, if you build a deep connection without giving off the vibe you’re a sexual person and you want her sexually you will fail.  So you have to touch a lot.  Break the friend vibe by using innuendos and creating a boy girl dynamic, not a person to person dynamic or the "friends" dynamic.  Acknowledge her sexuality and that you’re attracted to that.

How to get a girlfriend is about creating that deep emotional connection, while also making it clear you’re attracted to her and want her sexually.  Having a girlfriend is both emotional and physical.  If its just emotional connection you become friends, if its just physical connection you become each others booty call so you have to have both.

The next step in how to get a girlfriend is the "us" vibe the "together" vibe, the team.  You and her are a team together and you always communicate.  You need to call and communicate all the time without coming off as needy.  You need to be together a lot, and hang out as much as possible.  Being together and communicating all the time will create that boyfriend girlfriend dynamic.

Now having all these steps in place here’s how you seal the deal. You have to sleep with her first.  Unless your in middle or high school, most of the time you have to sleep with a girl before she will be your girlfriend.  After you've laid all your groundwork with having a deep connection, being physical with her, and communicating all the time.  Then how to get a girlfriend is you have to sleep with her a few times.  After sex and a connection its easy to make her your girlfriend, you just have to ask her and she will say yes, but most of the time she will ask you first.