Once you guys are able to open and hold a conversation, number closes will come easy. Even an average guy can get numbers. Most guys starting out in the game will hit a roadblock when it comes to phone and text game. You will not always meet up with the girl a second time, and you will get flaked on. There are ways to game over the phone to create more attraction, tension, intrigue, and value.

If you want to almost eliminate game over the phone, you have to have a strong first interaction. Do as much as you can NOW in the moment! Interact with her in your first interaction as if it is a date, so many guys are worried about getting her to meet up with you later, but if you don't have a strong first interaction, its pointless to get a number. You need to give her something to remember you by, your goal should be to take the interaction as far as possible physically in the first interaction. Once you sleep with the girl once, half the battle is over and it becomes so much easier to make it happen again in the future.

There will be times where you can't escalate much physically or the interaction is short, this happens mostly in the daytime. Or there will be other times even in night game, where you don't have a bounce location nearby. Make sure to escalate and game to a decent level before you number close. This will make it so you get more day dates and have to game less over the phone.  Interacting with a girl on a date isn't that difficult, and if your a complete newbie I recommend you check out Planning The Perfect Date.

Now were gonna talk about the differences between texting, and calling a girl. I prefer to text when I game, especially at first. A text does not have to be real time like a phone call so if shes not near her phone she will eventually get it, read it and respond. Voice conversations allow you to create more comfort and connection with the girl. You should call her eventually after you guys have had a few text conversations back and forth, you then call move up to calling her and having a voice chat.

I will structure these techniques to apply to both Voice, and Text gaming. Although gaming works best when you Text.

1. Don't use boring and predictable conversation. Especially when texting. None of "Hey whats up", "Nothing much how about you". Try to say something more fun and unpredictable. Gaming over the phone requires you to create some level of comfort first before you break rapport or create tension or intrigue.

2. When you game, always be doing something when she asks. Embed value switches into your text and conversations. Say when your with friends, or say your with another girl, who's your "friend". Also mentioning anything to do with you taking care of your body or image.

3. Mentioning anything that stimulates positive images or emotions. Like if a girl asks me what I'm doing sometimes ill just be like. "I'm cooking orange chicken and rice." Ill usually get a response like "That sounds yummy, I love Chinese food!." It simulates good images of food and positive emotions, and its a value switch that I can cook.

4. Talk to her like you've known her forever, like shes a good friend. Never be unsure or hesitant if she knows its you. Pretend your calling a good friend. This will give out a good vibe with you conversation.

5. Don't appear desperate. You need to show limited interest while phone and text gaming. This is one of the biggest mistakes AFC's make is trying to rush things, and calling or texting too much, this will quickly scare the girl away. Being the man you have to be able to lead the relationship, rarely will the girl make very much effort to lead the relationship unless you f close her. So you should call or text first, just once. If you call leave a voice mail with a hook at the ending. A hook is just something that makes her want to call back. An example is "the craziest thing just happened to me, I just wanted to tell you about it!"

6. Maintain your ladies. Eventually you will get a list of girls that you phone game. The main thing is just establishing contact every three or four days this will allow you to keep them hooked and interested for longer.

Those first six are the basic foundation of knowledge you should use while phone gaming.

From there the more advanced techniques come in. Use these to unlock more emotions such as Curiosity, Tension, and Getting Her Hot.

1. Curiosity- Curiosity is created when you use hooks. Things that force the girl to respond. Using Intrigue is very powerful, here's some examples:

"The craziest thing just reminded me of you!."

"The funniest/craziest thing happened to me today."

2. Tension- Tension is created when you tease her, you push/pull. Basically using anything she says to tease her. Misinterpreting her words. Anything she says that you can turn around to show shes not worthy of you. Make sure to keep this playful, and carefree, the idea is you want her to have fun and say your teases in a playful way. Also using things she says as reasons to show disinterest. Using pushes at the right times will create an insane amount of attraction.

3. Getting Her Hot - This is just saying things that get her thinking sexually. It is best to be ambiguous and to use innuendos. You can be directly sexual although I don't find this to be as effective unless you have known the girl a long time already.

These three are really the only advanced pieces you need to have killer phone game. Use all these techniques together to get her interested, and hot for you before you schedule a meet up.

When you meet up for a date, you should never be spending much money. This is a misconception that most guys have. The idea is not to impress her with how much money you spend, but instead to escalate the relationship physically, and get her more interested in you.

Go get some coffee, take her along when you go shopping, it should be something basic that allows you guys to talk and interact with each other. When you invite her on a date make it seem like your going to be doing something fun anyway, and you just want to invite her along. It should be casual and no pressure.

I hope this guide helped you sort out your phone game. It will be a valuable tool to add to your interactions with women. Have fun and get out there!