Pick Up Lines that Work

If you’re honestly thinking of using the standard "pickup lines" don't!  Any crazy or funny pickup lines that you've heard do not work!  I wouldn't think you would be dumb enough to try those.  I do think almost all your game should come naturally, however having pre planned openers or pick up lines that work is not a bad thing.  When you can, think of something situational to start a conversation.  Although many times that’s difficult, and when your out in the real world gaming all of the time the situational openers you use do not always create the desired response.

When you know pick up lines that work there are several advantages.  The biggest advantage to knowing pick up lines that work is that you can focus more on your delivery and body language.  Since your delivery is very important this is an obvious advantage.  Your delivery is important because your tonality and how you say things says way more about you than what you say.  This is kind of hard to explain through text but don't use openers that are approval seeking, don't let how you feel get wrapped up in the way she responds to you.

You also cannot seem nervous or insecure when your using pickup up lines that work.  This is hard not to do at first but through repeated practice you will become good at it.  If she senses bad energy, which is if you’re insecure, nervous, un confident, or needy almost anything you say will not work.  All that is conveyed in your body language and delivery.  Why its great to know pick up lines that work is because its easier to focus on how you say things rather than thinking of what to say since the way in which you speak is just as important as what you say.

At first when your using pick up lines that work even, you will have some anxiety, you have to just not care about the outcome.  The times your nervous are the times you’re trying to "get" something from the girl.  The approaches you do for the first few months should be just for practice.  You need to get in the habit of when you see an attractive woman of not hesitating and approaching her, because the opportunity goes by fast.  You can and probably still will get results but that should not be your focus in the beginning stages.  Your focus first should be to improve your gaming ability.  Once you reach a certain level of skill and know pick up lines that work approaching women will not be difficult, but will instead be second nature.

You want to come of as fun, confident, secure, and non-needy when you do approach and use pick up lines that work, if you do she will open well and be receptive to you.  The problem with situational openers while being more relevant, they are more predictable and that’s what almost all guys will use.  That’s why knowing pickup lines that work or "openers" are a must.  Getting the courage to approach is enough, you don't always want to think of what to say as well, that can be overwhelming.

If you want to know pickup lines that work, I highly recommend the book Instant Attraction.  It explains all the different types of openers, the advantages of each type, and which ones are the most effective.  These are actually pickup lines that work and that will get you laid in the real world.