The Finger Hook Technique

Have you ever been in a situation where you wanted to go hold the girl's hand and couldn't because she was too nervous? Perhaps you couldn't think of a way to hold her hand or she was extremely attracted to you, so much so that she is nervous when she comes in contact with you. This situation is most often found when the girl just got out of a bad relationship, or anytime in general that she feels as if she is going to get hurt. So it is like a baby step for her instead of just going for the full thing, which would otherwise be a big deal for her. Here in TIC we have a solution for that problem. Instead of taking huge leaps with women that are afraid of getting hurt, try taking smaller ones. In order to successfully move to the next stage you must advance past the previous one. In this case it would be working towards holding her hand. There are a few deviations of the Finger Hook technique. The first one that will be described is to be used with your pinky finger and with her pinky finger.

The Pinky Hook
In order to run this technique you are going to first need to be able to strategically place yourself in order to execute it properly. For example, if you are out at a pool hall it would be best for both of you to be leaning back on the pool table together side-by-side facing the same direction. The key is to be by her side facing the same direction as her so that you are both soldier to soldier. It works great if you are both leaning against something. Not only is it smoother if you do it this way, but it also gives you an excuse for doing it "accidentally.”

1. Stand next to her or wherever it is most convenient to be near her hand.
2. It is best to wait standing next to her for a bit.
3. Place your hand next to hers and slightly on top of it, but don't make it obvious that you're putting your hand on hers. Put your pinky over hers.
4. Reach in with your hand and lock pinkies with her.
5. Look at her and smile (optional but encouraged).

After she becomes comfortable with your pinkies together, you will also notice that the hands are arranged so that you can easily pivot your hand into hers. Now, you're holding her hand! If you choose not to slide your hand into her you can just go for holding her hand the regular way. Your pinkies are still locked at this point so unlock them after a few seconds of her being comfortable with holding your hand. Then just make the move Wasn't that easy. It's almost too smooth.

This technique is great because it's not like the pressure of holding her hand (not that it's a big deal, but to her at the time it might be) and she gets comfortable with you holding her hand, even if it's just with your pinky finger.

The Finger Hook
It does not necessarily have to be the pinky fingers that hook with each other. In fact, it can be any of your fingers. If you two are facing each other you might find it easier to just use your index finger instead. This can also be used in basically any position. What you would do is this. Reach down towards her hand and if you can not squeeze your finger into hers, push her hand away lightly and say very playfully and slightly sarcastic "Pff what ever!" Then turn your back on her. She will most likely reply with something around the lines of "What? What did I do??" and give you some good reverse Kino. Now turn around and say "well I was GOING (said in past tense) to do this." Now you take your hand down and slide your finger into hers so that you are holding fingers instead of hands. Now give hers finger a little squeeze. If she is feeling a lot of attraction for you and has the butterflies she will pretty much always squeeze back and smile at you. It should go without saying that after you reach this point, wait a few seconds then take your finger out and hold her hand.

Optional: Cat and Mouse
In order to run the cat and mouse option with this technique it is recommended that you establish a cat and mouse theme earlier on for best results. That way she will pick up on your little game better. Once the technique has been executed you can proceed to relax your entire hand. Do not squeeze back. Try to gently pull yours away. You will notice she will squeeze yours back even harder to keep it there. If she doesn't, then the whole point of pulling it out gently is that you still didn't totally take your finger out of hers so you can just slide it back in and re-hook with hers if she didn't squeeze yours to keep it there.

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