The Lying Game

One thing that most of us all fear is being lied to and deceived. There is a game that you can play to hone in on your skills and abilities to detect people lying to you. In fact it is so fun, that you will want to do it often just for the fun of the game. The bonus to learning this game is that you can use it as a Perfection Outside technique while on a date to go through a full WOW cycle of interest, attraction, selection, trust, and seduction if you want all with minimal effort. The game starts off by asking them if they want to play this really fun game you learned called "The Lying Game". The rules are simple. You sit down facing each other. She puts her hands into yours with your hands underneath hers to detect any changes in movement. The real reason for this is to isolate her body movement so that she can not lie as easily. Explain that you can feel free to move if you wish to scratch yourself if you are itchy or w/e else you want, but the default location should be with her hands in yours.

Start off by telling you a few statements about what ever topic you choose. Make sure the first few statements are true. Keep them low level pressure. For example : "What did you have for breakfast this morning?" There is no reason to lie about that. So this will give you your baseline to work with for her when she is telling the truth.

When she is telling the truth, call her on it. "Truth" and when she is lying call her on it. Or if you are not sure say "I'm 50/50" and ask her again.

You can also go off beat for a little while and ask questions to her like "Have you ever done X". You can either call her on it if you think she is lying or usually they will be in rapport with you and temporarily forget about the game and you can use this to create a connection and get to know each other. Then before the conversation closes and while in mid conversation go back to the game. The game will allow you to create many conversation threads that you do not finish on purpose. This will leave the feeling of "We have so much more to talk about". If you so choose to finish out a conversation thread then make sure it leaves a connection feeling behind and continue on with the game. This is not a very strict game, it is meant for you to bounce around and keep things interesting.

Below are some things that will help you detect when someone is lying to you. The main purpose of this exercise is for you too look for these signs and have the ability to see them when they are present with minimal effort.

The Muscle Twitch
This is by far my favorite one to look for. If they display this one. They are almost always lying. CIA agents are taught this technique as well. Watch there face, when we lie sometimes we have an involuntary muscle twitch on our face that unless trained to notice will go unnoticed. Since you are playing this game, you will learn to notice it and red flag it. Look under there eyes where there eye lashes are and there eye brows might twitch as well. Those are the most common spots to be easily noticed. When they lie, you will notice a slight twitch there. The key to picking it up is to look at the WHOLE face and watch for small little changes like that. Those are not the only spots that you can notice it, but it is the most common and easiest place to notice it, since most of your attention should be on there eyes anyways.

Eye Movement Patterns
Typically when we remember something and are recalling information, we will look up and to the left to recall it. That is of course if we are right handed. If we are left handed then we will look the opposite direction for accessing the same material. Let's try it. Think of what color your bed room is. STOP. Which way did you look? If you happened to be right handed by reacted in the way that a left handed person would, than that suggests that you are either ambidextrous OR that you where originally left handed but learned to deal with society by picking up right handed tendencies, by the way that you write.

We will use this for detecting lies by starting off before that game begins by determining whether they are right or left handed by nature. You can toss them something, watch them take a step towards you and based on which side that they used will be there tendencies, right or left. You can also ask simple no pressure questions like "What did you have for breakfast this morning as a baseline for watching there eye pattern movements.

When playing the game itself watch when they move there eyes to the other side, because they are accessing the creative side of there brain. Thus they are more than likely thinking of a lie to tell you. For the basis of simplifying things we will use a regular right handed person as our baseline for learning since 6 out of 7 approximately are right handed. So if you ask them a question or they look to there right BEFORE answering or while answering your question, then they are probably lying to you.

Vocal Tonality
The person who is lying will try to hide there lie. Sometimes this will be seen by mumbling or talking softly while mumbling to try to hide it. So to them the lie was never told. They want to get it out fast. Which leads to the second clue for them lying, they say it really fast as compared to there regular rate of speech. As if to get it out of the way.

Exaggeration of movement / Robotic
When we lie, we act irregularly. Instead of being fluid and relax with our movements we are more nervous and thus this can lead to robotic movements. The liar will look more jerky in there movements and gestures as compared to being relaxed and moving fluidly. In addition, sometimes they will go out of there way to add extra little gestures that are not necessary to try to prove they are lying. Watch out for them. In the game they will be easy to spot.

Covering the Mouth, The Nose & Eye Rub
Have you ever seen a young child cover his mouth when he is lying? I'm sure that you have, most of us have. They cover it in order to make themselves feel better about telling the lie. Cover it up like it is not happening. As we grow older that same action is concealed by rubbing the nose instead, then when we are adults it progresses into rubbing under the eye.

Sometimes when you play the game they will cover there mouth while they are thinking of the lie then remove the hands to tell the lie. You can call them out on the lie before they even say it when you see this.

Excessive Touching of the Face
When we lie it makes us nervous, so we will be more inclined to touch our face and head area. Keep an eye out for it and compare it to there normal behavior.

The Neck Scratch
When we are nervous and we lie science actually shows that it agitates the tiny hair follicles on our neck and it makes us itchy. If you are in a business setting this can be seen when someone adjusts there collar (scratching there neck).

Creating Barriers
Often when we are trying to escape a situation we will create small emotional barriers between us and who we are trying to escape. Examples of this can be seen by people placing there coffee mug in front of us, or stacking little objects in front of us to create some sort of wall between us and them. Smaller signs of this can be seen by grabbing and holding something between us. Anytime somebody is creating a visible blockage that is in the path between you and them, this should trip a red flag for you.

Looking for a way out
This should be an obvious one. If they are looking for a way out of the situation or are willing to change the topic fast and seem relieved that you changed the topic after you are questioning them then this should be a good indicator of guilt as well.

Prolonged Thinking
When people take to long to think especially in this game, it should be a clear give away that something is not right. Try it for yourself. Think of one truth, then think of one good lie. You may notice it takes a little bit longer for you to think of a good lie than it does for you to think of a truth. Use this to your advantage.

They look down
This is an easy one to detect. After they said there piece or during it, they will tend to look down to escape your gaze because they are nervous and guilty about lying to you.

Holding Her Hands
While you are playing the game it is a good idea to check her compliance with you. Holding your hands out and slowly lowering them, if she lowers with you there is a good chance she is also telling the truth. If she keeps them stiff and rigid then she is probably nervous about something or holding something back (possible sign of deceit as well). While you are doing this if she happens to lift her hands up off of yours a little bit while talking especially, this is another sign you should red flag. If her fingers twitch while talking to you at all, red flag it. Also this is technique is good for Kino escalation as well. Nice excuse.

Techniques for Double Checking
Sometimes people are quiet good at lying at a given instance and or you may not have picked up on any signs of deceit. So you will need a back up plan to double check if you are unsure of whether they are lying to you or not. Below are a few ways to make them uncomfortable if they are lying and it will make it easier for you to check to see if they are feeling any feelings of guilt or unnecessary tension. Things to look out for in these are if she smiles or laughs. We do this to relieve tension naturally, and for us this will be a sign that they are lying when questioned.

Pause: Pause after they say there bit, make it a little bit longer than usual to create tension and give them a look of a blank stare mixed with a "are you serious?" face.

Stare: When you are creating a pause or when you are in doubt of there answer, you should stare at them skeptically with a blank barely emotionless face that reads skepticism.

Question: If the pause and stare did not give you the answer that you want then ask them a question about it. For example "Where did you hear that from?" "What makes you think that?" ect. After you ask the question about it repeat the 2 above techniques. Look and wait for her to react. You can even come in closer and invade her personal space to amp up her reaction even more. Bringing your face closer to hers to read it better works good as well. We are looking for her to crack. Usually they will crack with this. If they do not. They managed to pass by your defenses or they are telling the truth. More than likely they are telling the truth.

The Card Game Variation
This game variation would be best for beginners and for playing with your guy friends. You can play either in any situation, this is just preferred by more guys with there friends. The game is the exact same as the first one, only it is more straight forward in being used to develop your skill set and less into getting rapport. To play the game you get a deck of cards. Shuffle them. Then flip to top one towards the person in front of you (making sure that you can't see it), show it to them. Then put it down. Ask them "What card was it?" or hold it in front of them and ask them "What card is this?". Based on there reactions you call them out on telling the truth or lie. Then flip the card over to see if you where right.

BEWARE: After a while of playing this, it starts to make the other person a better liar. So only do it with people that you trust.

Strategies
As you become more comfortable with detecting lies your skill set will also increase to the point where you can just tell if they are going to lie to you or not BEFORE they even give you an answer. This is the point where you would want to play it with a girl. You can tell when they are going to lie before they give you a response by answering BEFORE you ask or while you are. Look to there right before answering, take too long to think, cover there mouth or touch there face before or while answering ect.

The strategy you want to use when using this on a female is to truly make them believe that you are a human lie detector. You can make mention that you don't always call people out on there lies, because sometimes it is just more fun to catch them in there own web later on. Then you play the game with them, and call them out on there lies before they even tell them to you. You will get to the point where you can say "You are thinking of lying to me now... now you are searching for a true statement to tell me to counter that." You can see how much fun you can have with people once you master these techniques. You can instill a level of intimidation into people by using these techniques. Once you have convinced them that you can read there mind and know when they are lying to you by reading there subconscious behaviors by looking them in the eyes, they will be VERY paranoid about making eye contact with you when they are lying. I have had a girl throw her head to the side and actually HIDE from my gaze. I only caught her later lying to me about what she said. Doing this makes spotting lies a lot easier than you ever thought possible.

Fluctuating Her Emotional States: Fluctuating her emotional states will help you in this game and will create many feelings in her as well. As we all know women are attracted to men who can make them FEEL! It is a bonding mechanism. When playing the game change emotional threads often at there peaks to keep her on her toes. If you stay on one for TOO long, as humans we tend to get bored of it. Don't let this happen to you. Switch between being playful to being dead serious and intimidating while playing the game. Hit as many emotional highs as you can. If at all possible try to keep them positive. If not positive then, do not dwell on it long. It is alright. In general we relate the feelings that we experience with those people. When we think of them we will think of those emotions. An example of this would be if you met a girl at a club. She gave you AMAZING head in the bathroom. Next time you see her, are you thinking about getting to know her? Or thinking about sex? It's that simple. Back to fluctuating emotional states. An example of it is listed below.

HB: I like to go snowboarding in the winter.
PUA: Oh really? So is there something about falling down the mountain you enjoy most? (said with a playful flirty smile) 
HB: Blah blah blah  PUA: Okay lets get serious. Have you ever done (X)? (serious face)

Then when you go back to the statement game again you can act very serious about questioning her statements or be really fun and playful about them, so when you think she is lying you can take that high and fun atmosphere and crash it into the ground and make her nervous. To detect for lies. Then bring her out of it after you give your verdict and tease her about it. Continue to flip flop emotional states playfully and have fun with it.

Rapport: When you first start playing this game, you will not have much rapport more than likely. By the end of the game your connection should be very strong. You both will learn to trust each other. At first you will be picking her off with her lies, then you will teach her how to read lies. You both will learn to know when you are lying to each other and trust will come from that. As well as teaching her a useful skill that she will remeber you by when she notices things in her everyday normal interactions. To make the most of this technique, do not over due it. Once you have established a good connection between you two drop the game and move onto the next stage.

Tips:
*Have them spit out there gum (Real life say it's disrespectful or cheating for the game) 
*Try to put them in a position where it is not as easy for them to move. So there movement is limited. Make sure you can always see there eyes. 
*BEST results will be found in isolation or at least semi-isolated.

Turning it Sexual
This game is an easy and innocent way at first to ease into a sexual conversation. Once you asked simple easy questions at first to build a level of comfort you can slowly start going into deeper questions about her. Make her elicit her values to you and you can match them with hers.

This would be a good time to DHV for yourself as well, just make sure you don't brag when you do it. Once she gives the verdict of your statement you two can talk about it. It works great because it gives you a chance to give your sales pitch as to why you are the BEST. Example: You give the statement "I volunteer at a local community hospital for children with cancer". You can say it in a playful way, to try and throw her off. If she miss reads you then call her on it. Tell her about one of your favorite kids. Then down play the whole thing. And proceed on with the game like it was nothing. (Don't lie and make up false information to DHV with. We are about Integrity not being dirt bags. If you lie, it WILL catch up to you sooner or later and get you 3 fold. You don't want it to ruin a potential relationship on you. After all, you NEVER know when you are going to meet your future wife.)

Creating Rapport
If you are in an LTR with this woman you can even do a complete cycle of love with this game. Interest is already sparked, attraction can be created by teasing her about her answers and how bad of a liar she is, selection is optional but can be accomplished by asking her a simple question about her if she is X (selection doesn't really need to happen if you are in an LTR), rapport will happen when you start to relate yourself to her answers. All that you are missing now is sex. If you are not in an LTR with the target then there is more to do. You can ask questions to her that will elicit an emotional response and then you two can have a small conversation about it where you two bridge similarities together. Then the game goes on. Start asking sexual questions next, this can then lead into the seduction stage if you so choose it to. Reference Points

This game can be used as a Reference Point later on. If she is in doubt of anything that you are saying, if you are lying to her etc. You can ask her if she remembers that game that they played together. She will remember what you look like when you lie (or at least want her to know when you are lying). Then repeat what you said (what she does not believe) and look her in the eye and say. Did I lie? She will tell you know. This will give her evidence that what ever you are saying is true

This article was written by Big Q from http://internetmacking.com/