The Real Deal
With Phone Numbers
You approach that cute girl, you have a
small conversation and you get the phone number! Oh Joy your
life is complete you have a new girls number!
In reality that IS NOT how things work. When it comes to dating
and relationships many guys think the phone number is the
ticket to the girl, when in most cases it has little to no
value in the overall scheme of things. Ill be talking about the
common way guys view phone numbers and why they are getting
little results.
An average guy views getting the phone number as a big thing,
they feel like getting the phone number will definitely give
them a high chance of getting the girl, so when they get the
number they feel great for the rest of the day. When it comes
time though to arrange a meet up, they get vague responses from
the girl and excuses, she flakes out on the date, ignores you
completely, or even worse gives you a fake number.
It can get annoying but why do girls do this? Giving out fake
phone numbers is a defense mechanism. Girls WILL AVOID
confrontation AT ALL COSTS. They are ruled by emotions and some
would rather give you false hope than make you upset in fear of
your response. Some girls even go as far as to memorize fake
numbers to give out. If a guy keeps annoying them and pestering
them, a fake number is an easy way to get them to leave them
alone. So if you get a fake number your doing things wrong.
Other common excuses are things like "I don't give my number
out". Almost never will a girl flat out say "I don't like you,
or I'm not attracted to you".
The first thing you need to do is stop viewing the phone number
as so important! It is very insignificant to THE RIGHT way go
consistently meet and date women. Most guys will chat for 5-10
minutes then go for the phone number. They always go for the
phone number as quick as possible. This is dooming you from the
beginning. The phone number is to be used when you want to meet
her up to game her again. Right now shes in front of you! Game
as much and as long as possible in the first interaction, all
your gonna be doing is THE SAME THING in the day 2. Game her
NOW!
If you gaming her well she will give you her number! Thats
right, you wanna get to the point where she will offer YOU her
number. If a girl likes you thats what she will do, and then
you don't even have to get shot down, and your game will be
better!
Next time your out go out with this intention. "I'm going to
game the girl as much as possible now! In this moment today. My
intention is to not get the number but instead progress things
as much as possible now. The only way I can get the number is
if she offers it to me."
Now thinking like this will be much harder at first, but it
will eliminate almost all your flakes, fake phone numbers, or
blowouts! You will notice your game will be much better and
much tighter overall. Quit going for the number immediately and
instead progress things as much as possible in the first
interaction. Once she offers you her number, its cake from
there.
Once you've been doing this for awhile you will "get it" things
will click for you and you can go back to suggesting the number
exchange on your part.
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