What Girls Like About Guys

We have all been raised to think what girls like about guys.  Ever since we've been born our mothers and the media have constantly bombarded us with stuff like this.  Our only knowledge of women and relationships is through personal experience, or from TV and movies.  This gives us a distorted view of what girls like about guys.  Like the movie scenes where your running after your crush who’s about to get married.  Well in the real world none of that crap works.  Also your mothers while they meant well really don't have a good understanding of what girls like about guys and why they like the men they do, and they teach you all the wrong things.  Here are some examples of the distorted view a lot of us have.

"It's bad to touch girls."

"Be nice and compliment her all the time, it will make her feel good."

"You got to bring flowers on a first date."

"Don’t kiss on the first date."

If one takes a moment to really look at the real world and what girls like about guys from a real view you would see things differently.  It would probably make most of your mothers have a heart attack and those media brats run for the hills and crawl into the fetal position.

You see what girls like about guys is not someone who kisses their ass every second and will do anything she asks, but instead they want one thing and one thing only.  A real man, or "Alpha Male."

What do i mean by this?

Girls want a man who can lead them, some one who makes their lives exciting to the point where they always want to be close to them.  They don't want a guy who’s going to be boring and predictable and a guy who they can boss around.  They want a guy who’s exciting and who can stand up for himself.  They don't want a guy who is weak and submissive, and a guy that treats them like their super special and one of a kind.  Here’s some more examples of why when is comes to what girls like about guys, they like an Alpha Male, not a weak submissive guy.

A girly non alpha man, would always agree with what a girl has to say, he’s always walking around on egg shells because he’s scared to offend the girl that he’s dating, and he is constantly pampering her.  When she is a bitch to him he just takes it and backs into his corner instead of standing up and calling her out for it.  This type of guy constantly takes her out on boring dates and calls and texts her like twenty times a day because he has no life and this is not attractive.

Alpha men on the other hand do the opposite.

What girls like about guys that are alpha males, is that the alphas have their own point of view, and will not agree with the girl just to be nice.  He seems to have crude humor at times but really isn’t afraid to show it because he likes to amuse himself and have fun.  When he takes time out of his busy schedule to be with her its a time to relax and have fun.  The dates aren't boring and generic like dinner and a movie. 

They consist of mini golfing, the zoo, the mall, a rock concert or just anything that perks his interest and his girls because he hates doing the same thing over and over.  He always tries to keep calling and texting at a minimum because he'd rather truly talk in person.  The woman is not his life and the center of his attention but instead just an addition to his fun and exciting life.  What girls like about guys like this is that there fun and exciting, not boring and predictable.  

You see what girls like about guys is they like men who are not submissive and nice, but real men who are not afraid to offend them and who have their own opinions.  They like guys who treat them like equals and as real people, not guys who treat them like they are special and one of a kind.